MAYBE YOU ARE SELFISH TO HOST A WINTER WEDDING
Hey Darling,
YOU ARE TOTALLY SELFISH to host your wedding weekend on some of THE MOST popular wedding dates of the winter season (12/24, 12/25, 12/31, 01/01).
I know I am the expert here and many are looking to me to speak on the risks, so here are a few I have heard -
- this time of the year is for family traditions
- it is rude to force everyone to focus on you
- travel is hard enough + now you are forcing earlier accommodations
- what about the children
- AND THE LIST CAN GO ON & ON
SECRET?
To live your life as you choose is completely and utterly selfish. It is totally okay for us to be a little self-regarding. Otherwise, who are we living for?
IF WE ARE DOING THIS, LET'S DO IT RIGHT.
FIVE SECRET TIPS TO REMEMBER ABOUT THAT WINTER WEDDING
- Choosing one of these dates is going to be a huge investment. It will definitely be one of the greatest out of the different dates you could choose.
- Wedding vendors are human beings too. Please remember that. They are sacrificing missing out on memories with their loved ones to support you on your day. Everyone has a price, please be prepared for what you are requesting.
- As long as you incorporate generational traditions into the wedding (in moderation + when you can), the guardians + parental figures in your life will be more accepting of the decision.
- Most weddings are family-value based. I am not speaking just about blood ties. Whoever you consider to be your family, you will not only want them there, but also want them to feel welcomed and comfortable. The more in depth the relationship, the bigger the impact they will have on you emotionally, if THEY DO NOT LIKE YOUR DECISION.
- Prepare to send Save-The-Dates + Wedding Invitations about 1 - 2 months sooner than when you would normally.
- Average Mail Out Date
- 4 - 6 months prior to the wedding mail your Save-The-Dates
- 2 - 3 months prior to the wedding mail your Wedding Invitations
- Use the holiday décor that you and your tribe already own to your advantage. I am talking Christmas trees, Christmas lights, Hot Cocoa Stations, and the color schemes + textures (reds, golds, greens, pine cones, flannel) to start.
- The average couple spends at minimum $1,500. This start to cover table linens, napkins, and dish rentals. We have not began to discuss what will actually decorate the ceremony and reception space.
- Yes; drama is always better. Give me more length in the train. No; a tiara or a crown is not too much. Velvet Tuxedo; DUHHHH. We are either ending the year or beginning the year with a bang.
All weddings are the best blend of selfishness and selflessness. They will live.
- Fancy
Credits
Charlie Robert - Picture #1
Alexander Kolyada - Picture #2
